SEEK TO UNDERSTAND YOUR MAN.
What women need to know about men;
Francis of Assisi prayed,'Lord! Grant that I seek more to understand than to be understood. This kind of spirit could completely transform misunderstandings among couples. You could seek to understand your partner than to be understood always.
Women desire to understand men better day by day. Although men are not alike,by knowing your boyfriend or husband better could help you understand that they are normal when they exhibit certain actions,tendencies and attitudes. Just like women have expectations and so do men. You must learn to notice those realistic expectations and respond to them accordingly.
A man is not your fellow woman however best of friends you may be.You must acknowledge his masculinity. It is alright he could be lacking some of the essential Male qualities but that does not mean he becomes a lesser man. He may invent a number of cover-ups in order to hide the fact from you and others. Once you accept your man the way he is,respect reigns.
Some comments could be very annoying to men depending on their personality. Have you ever said something casual to your man to which he sharply responded or maybe withdrew into a period of silence? You wonder, "Now, what did I say wrong?" Unknowingly you probably touched a sensitive spot. Most of the women do not attack their boyfriends and husbands with cruel remarks just to hurt them,oftenly they do it innocently and thoughtlessly. Some comments such as 'Can't you grow up, you are childish and Is that being a man?' aims at bringing your man down which could be dangerous.
As a woman never fail to understand your man's priorities in life that he must put his work or career ahead of you at times if he is to be successful. Most women rarely understand how heavily the burden weighs upon a man to earn a living and to get ahead of the world for men rarely speak about it because they do not want to worry their loved ones at all.
Always seek and purpose to understand your man in the sense that know what he likes,dislikes,fears,believes in,dreams of,worries about and why he feels that way. This would lead you directly into the benefits of a most meaningful marriage.
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What women need to know about men;
Francis of Assisi prayed,'Lord! Grant that I seek more to understand than to be understood. This kind of spirit could completely transform misunderstandings among couples. You could seek to understand your partner than to be understood always.
Women desire to understand men better day by day. Although men are not alike,by knowing your boyfriend or husband better could help you understand that they are normal when they exhibit certain actions,tendencies and attitudes. Just like women have expectations and so do men. You must learn to notice those realistic expectations and respond to them accordingly.
A man is not your fellow woman however best of friends you may be.You must acknowledge his masculinity. It is alright he could be lacking some of the essential Male qualities but that does not mean he becomes a lesser man. He may invent a number of cover-ups in order to hide the fact from you and others. Once you accept your man the way he is,respect reigns.
Some comments could be very annoying to men depending on their personality. Have you ever said something casual to your man to which he sharply responded or maybe withdrew into a period of silence? You wonder, "Now, what did I say wrong?" Unknowingly you probably touched a sensitive spot. Most of the women do not attack their boyfriends and husbands with cruel remarks just to hurt them,oftenly they do it innocently and thoughtlessly. Some comments such as 'Can't you grow up, you are childish and Is that being a man?' aims at bringing your man down which could be dangerous.
As a woman never fail to understand your man's priorities in life that he must put his work or career ahead of you at times if he is to be successful. Most women rarely understand how heavily the burden weighs upon a man to earn a living and to get ahead of the world for men rarely speak about it because they do not want to worry their loved ones at all.
Always seek and purpose to understand your man in the sense that know what he likes,dislikes,fears,believes in,dreams of,worries about and why he feels that way. This would lead you directly into the benefits of a most meaningful marriage.
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